Venus
07-25-2006, 04:36 PM
Ok I have another thread here about the same person and the bracelet incident. Now the newest is that she is suddenly put out, put off, pissed off whatever about the fact that she is not part of the wedding party. Her daughter is a jr. bridesmaid in our wedding aka a flower girl but due to size and age not called that, another long irritating story. Anyway, this friend and Im beginning to say that lightly, were discussing the silk flower she made for us and how many bouquets we had, now take note this person is not related in any way shape or form and was someone i had befriended online. Anyway it came to the place that we were discussing my sister's bouquet, and she said "oh, your sister is still in the wedding" and I told her yes she was never out of it. Now at one point I had discussed that this person might be part of the wedding party but then FH said he wasnt having anyone on his side so to keep things even, I just kept my sister. Anyway the conversation continues and she gets all weird about how its all family in our wedding except her daughter, which her daughter was never my idea in the first place that got pushed on me and I didnt want to hurt the girl's feelings. Anyway the conversation gets stranger, then she says "well Im not sure if I should make myself a corsage" I tried to ignore it and talk about other things, nope didnt work. So finally I said "well you are special to me for all your help with the silk flowers but you arent actually in the wedding party" Well you would of thought I just kicked her, response was "Well that takes care of that". the whole time I already knew that is what she working towards being put in the ceremony as Maid of Honor, Now this person has copied my gift idea for her daughter, complained about the cost of having to travel here, the cost of her daughter's dress whom I never asked and whom the mom has changed the dress and shoes four times over the last year and half ,none of which Ive seen, and the last I heard she is sticking this 5'7 size 18, 10 year old in a hoop dress, which isnt close to what everyone else is wearing. She has done nothing but talk about how this trip is their vacation and what stops they are making here and there and from what it seems our wedding just happens to now be along the way. I actually went so far as to tell her that I totally understood if things were too expensive for her and she couldnt make. Today I spoke with her and she is all sullen. I'm sick of being bull dozed with only 3 days left.