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*Tanya*
12-25-2008, 02:45 AM
I can't believe it's our turn. :sappy:

Brian and I went for a drive on Christmas Eve, to look at Christmas lights, then came home to open one gift each before watching "A Christmas Carol". My gift to him was a lame ol' back massager thing. His gift to me was a lump of coal. An actual lump of coal. I kinda laughed when I opened the gift and saw a bit of coal lying on a piece of tissue paper, like, "Haha, very funny." But then he said, "Well, you know what they say about coal, right?" and I finally started to clue in!

I said, "Uh, that it turns into diamonds?" and he got down on his knee and pulled out the ring! I immediately burst into sobs, which made him start to cry, which made the rest even more perfect. He said, "You can't cry already! I haven't even said anything yet!" He said he loves me very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, and asked me to marry him! He put the ring on my finger, and we kissed and hugged each other and cried. It was perfect!

I love the ring so much. It's too big, but I've got tape on it to keep it from falling off. I'll take it in for sizing when we're back from Brian's dad's on Monday.

http://tanyamacphotography.smugmug.com/photos/442364600_eRP3k-L-1.jpg

I called my mom first. When she answered the phone, she said, "That was quick!" I asked what she meant, and she said, "Didn't you just get my text? Isn't that why you're calling?" and I said, "No, we just got engaged!" LOL! She'd just texted to say merry Christmas. Good timing. Then I called my dad. I told him I'd just gotten engaged and he said, "To who???" :lol:

So then Brian called his mom, who was spending Christmas Eve at his sister's. When he told his mom, I could hear her scream from across the room! Then I heard, "Uncle Brian's going to marry Tanya!" and Ryleigh, his four-year-old niece, said, "Yaaaaay!" :mushy: His mom asked to talk to me and she said she was thrilled and so happy for us. Then his sister got on the phone and said the same. Then Brian called his dad, and his step-mother got on the phone and asked to congratulate me too. Then he called his other sister, and she asked to talk to me. It was really cool that they all wanted to talk to me to congratulate me themselves. Janine called me "future sister-in-law-to-be".

So I can't believe it's finally here. We're engaged. It's too good to be true. How did I find this guy and, more aptly, how did I con him into loving me, seemingly as much as I love him?

I think we're aiming for an August 2009 wedding. We want nice weather on PEI, and we don't want to have to wait a year and a half, so 2009 it is. I'm sure eight months will be plenty to plan a wedding, since I have so much experience, and exposure to some of the best wedding experts in the world. Hopefully that gives my invisible friends (I'm looking at you, Mama D) time to save up for the trip. :heee:

Anyway, I should try to get some sleep since we do have a long drive ahead of us tomorrow. Thanks for being out there, all of you. :mushy:

Kathy
12-25-2008, 06:04 AM
Congratulations Tanya! :hug99:

jillian
12-25-2008, 09:35 AM
Congratulations!

Mrs.Brooks
12-25-2008, 09:59 AM
That was so sweet! :sappy: Your ring is absolutely gorgeous! :jump4joy:

So many congratulations!!!!

~*Kate*~
12-25-2008, 10:30 AM
:bliss: I saw the thread title and thought, "OMG, I hope that's what I think it is!!" :lol: Congratulations Tanya! I'm so excited for you!! :hug: :twirl:

Deidre98
12-25-2008, 10:59 AM
Congratulations Tanya!!! :sappy: I am in tears over the sweet proposal!!!

~Sara~
12-25-2008, 03:45 PM
Awww congratulations Tanya! I'm so happy for you! What an absolutely sweet proposal :heart:

MsJessica07
12-25-2008, 03:48 PM
Congrats!!!

Kristin
12-25-2008, 04:14 PM
Congrats!!

~Sherry~
12-25-2008, 05:14 PM
:hyper: That was sweet!!! :sappy: Congrats!! :glomp:

Mel
12-25-2008, 05:54 PM
such a great proposal! i'm so excited for you tanya!!!
:twirl: :confetti: :twirl: :mushy: :twirl: :confetti: :twirl:


and 8 months is totally enough time!
(at least i sure hope so, b/c thats what i gave myself!)

Kelly
12-25-2008, 07:23 PM
very creative! congrats!

Jader
12-25-2008, 09:01 PM
What a wonderful proposal story! :sappy: And the ring is beautiful.

Congrats!

::Amanda::
12-25-2008, 09:25 PM
:sappy: Congrats.

Raychel
12-25-2008, 09:31 PM
Congrats!!!! I :heart: the proposal story.

carolinalady67
12-25-2008, 10:12 PM
What an amazing proposal. Congratulations!

MissBella
12-25-2008, 10:41 PM
That's AWESOME and totally adorable! Congrats on the engagement, so happy for you!

Sabby12s
12-25-2008, 11:15 PM
Congrats Tanya! What a wonderful Christmas present!

Winter_Bride
12-25-2008, 11:30 PM
That is a fantastic story!! Congratulations!!!

Trinia
12-26-2008, 01:08 AM
Congrats!!! What a great proposal story! Your ring is absolutely gorgeous.

*heather*
12-26-2008, 08:00 PM
Woohoo, Tans! Now we can plan for rils! He did such a great job with the ring! I lurve it!

*Diane*
12-26-2008, 08:17 PM
OH Tanya!!! :bliss: I am beyond excited for you and Brian. You deserve a man who loves this much. He is blessed to have you! I got teary-eyed when Kate told me last night that you were engaged. :bighug:

*Ashley*
12-26-2008, 09:32 PM
Aw, congrats! I'm so happy for you and that proposal was clever and so sweet!

nikkiscott
12-26-2008, 09:42 PM
Congrats on your engagement. The story was so great. Thanks for sharing, and like the others have said, your ring is stunning.

*Kim*
12-27-2008, 11:46 AM
congrats tanya!!! the ring is absolutely beautiful!

hellobethie
12-27-2008, 01:09 PM
Awwwwwwwwwww. That is seriously cute. Congrats! And PEI in August. Awesome.

MalibuStacy1982
12-29-2008, 03:25 PM
Ohhhh maybe we'll be wedding date twins!!!

blondelildevil
12-31-2008, 01:14 AM
Awww congrats Tanya!!!! I'm so happy for you!!! The ring is GORGEOUS

*Sarah*
12-31-2008, 08:33 PM
What a sweet proposal! And your ring is beautiful!

Congratulations!

Aramelle
01-01-2009, 08:09 PM
What a perfect proposal! I love your story, and I love that your families were so excited for you. Oh, and I really love your ring...BEAUTIFUL! I'm looking forward to following along with your planning. I just know it's going to be amazing. :D

serda23
01-01-2009, 10:54 PM
Aww, I'm really slow finding my way here, but YAY!!! :excited: Congratulations Tanya! :hug:

*Tanya*
01-01-2009, 11:19 PM
Thanks so much for all the congrats, guys! :mushy:

I haven't taken a pic of us together yet, but here's a pic of my two amazing Christmas gifts: My ring and a brand new fiddle!

http://tanyamacphotography.smugmug.com/photos/444532503_JyqZX-M-1.jpg

And we went to an Ugly Sweater party for NYE, so here I am with my ugly sweater and my gorgeous ring. :lol:

http://tanyamacphotography.smugmug.com/photos/446381480_Nkguh-L.jpg

I'll try to get a decent pic of Brian and me tomorrow to share here. :)

coffeeaddict77
01-03-2009, 06:03 PM
Wow! Congrats how awesome! The ring is pretty special too :)

Renny
01-06-2009, 07:16 AM
Congrats! Your ring is beautiful!

*heather*
01-07-2009, 08:03 PM
Also, great penguin sweater!

*Stacie*
01-15-2009, 06:11 PM
Tanya I am so thrilled for you!!!!! What a sweet way to propose, and on Christmas eve nonetheless! That is so special!!! I can not wait to see your wedding plans underway. Huge congratulations to you!!!

karenzeb
06-02-2009, 07:41 PM
Okay so I am seeing this as it is almost your actual wedding but I love the pictures and your ring is so beautiful. Lots of congrats! I can't wait to see your wedding photos!

*Tanya*
06-03-2009, 10:51 AM
Aww, thanks, Karen! It's so cool to look back and read this now, almost a month away from our wedding day. Thanks for bumping this and reminding me how special that day was. :mushy: