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Kiki
07-12-2006, 06:19 PM
Tips from other brides

* if you're wearing new shoes (especially really dressy shoes) make sure you scuff them first so that they're not as slippery. You can scuff them by running the bottom on concrete.

* Wear Clear Deodorant

* If you use duct tape on your breasts, make sure it doesn't show! Medical-grade silk tape works best on the nipples. Trust me on that one...

* If you tend to sweat when you are nervous, use baby powder with cornstarch in the important places. You don't want wet spots on your gown while everyone is looking at you AND, sweat can stain your gown permanently.

* Don't ever spray perfume directly on your clothes (wedding gown or other), the oils in the perfume can leave spots that either stain directly or attract dirt. Make sure your perfume is dry before you put your gown on.

* Have Groom try on Tux several days before wedding

* Guys should put a little bit of Vaseline on the outsides of their shoes where their feet could touch each other. The Vaseline will prevent the shoes from sticking to each other. You only need to use a thin layer for this to work.

* vaseline on your teeth to keep the lipstick from staining them (especially before pictures and before the ceremony)... hollywood stars do this before big events where they'll be in a lot of pictures.

* the nail polish on either end of a run in your pantyhose thing works like a charm!

* I constantly get white deoderant marks on my clothes when dressing. Rather than washing with a wet cloth, take a pair of pantyhose and rub on the mark. For some reason it comes off. This is great when you are wearing dress clothes.

* If you are wearing a petticoat or an "underskirt", if it rides up or doesn't sit flat and is uncomfortable; turn it inside out.

* In pictures stand with one foot facing the picture taker and the other at a 90 degree angle (forming a T with your feet). This will make you face the picture taker, yet stand slightly sideways. This makes you look thinner in pictures. Also, like msxox said, hold your bouquet lower. It helps cover up tummys.

* where a button down shirt when your getting your hair and make up done that way you dont' have to pull a shirt off over your nicely done hair.

* kept my make up fresh by spraying aerosal hairspray in the air and walking into it so that it settles on the face. this kept in place!

* I have larger thighs that make that icky swishing sound when you wear pantyhose and your legs rub. If you wear them inside out (just turn them inside out before putting them on)....no noise.

* Lots of water and lots of sleep

* When you put on your lipstick, put our finger in your mouth and pull it out like a popsicle. It will take the lipstick off the inside of your lips so it doesn't wind up on your teeth.

* THe trick I learned here and used on my wedding day was to pee sitting backwards on the toilet - it worked much better with my huge dress.

* If you have a hair trial, wrap your tiara in saran wrap so it doesn't get covered in hairspray which will tarnish it, and so it can be easily slipped off without catching on your hair and ruining your do.

* If you take a new pair of pantyhose and wet them and then stick them in the freezer and let them freeze, once they have thawed out they are extremely hard to get a run after that. I dont know what the wetting them and freezing them does to them, but I have done it and have had pantyhose that have lasted for darn near forever.

* learnt this in dancing years ago : To avoid getting runs in stockings, spray them with hairspray first. It makes them a little shiny, so don't do that if you want a matt look.

MrsBrown810
08-06-2006, 09:36 AM
If your veil is wrinkled, hang it in the bathroom, turn on the hot water full blast and let it steam straight!

CdnStealthGirl
08-06-2006, 11:19 AM
Remember to get your engagement ring cleaned before the wedding.

Eat something for breakfast, even if it's just a piece of fruit. Make yourself eat.

If you are doing a lot of pictures after the ceremony, take some bottled water and handheld/non-messy snacks (like cheese and crackers) to the picture site. You'll be hungry.

Have one (or two) go-to person (people) who knows everything that is going on. You don't want everyone running to you for every little question.

Find some time after the ceremony or during the reception to steal away with your groom alone for a few minutes to focus on everything going on around you and being newly married.

rowanmayfairs
08-06-2006, 04:46 PM
I have something to mention about this comment.. :)

* if you're wearing new shoes (especially really dressy shoes) make sure you scuff them first so that they're not as slippery. You can scuff them by running the bottom on concrete.

I couldn't bear to "RUIN" a BRAND NEW pair of shoes.. Foot Petals makes a product that goes on the BOTTOM of your shoes. Then you DO NOT have to ruin a pair of shoes just to have some traction. The shoe store recommend this product to me. I bought mine off ebay and it is great.

I doubt I will wear my shoes again and want to resell them so I refuse to "damage" them.

They also make a product to go INSIDE your shoes to keep your toes from sliding out of open toe shoes. I bought these also.

I don't work for this company, but upon recommended from a store store I bought both products and love them.

www.footpetals.com

Alice
08-15-2006, 10:17 AM
Foot Petals makes a product that goes on the BOTTOM of your shoes. Then you DO NOT have to ruin a pair of shoes just to have some traction. The shoe store recommend this product to me. I bought mine off ebay and it is great.

I doubt I will wear my shoes again and want to resell them so I refuse to "damage" them.

They also make a product to go INSIDE your shoes to keep your toes from sliding out of open toe shoes. I bought these also.

I don't work for this company, but upon recommended from a store store I bought both products and love them.

www.footpetals.com

Everything I saw on that site can be gotten more easily & much more cheaply at your local Wal-Mart. If you're living somewhere that Wal-Mart (or Payless, or Shoe Carnival, or really any discount shoe store, or any shoe repair shop) isn't an option, then Footpetals is probably the way to go. Thinking about it, though, I'm pretty sure that you can get non-slip discs & other foot-comfy gadgets at most supermarkets.

serda23
09-08-2006, 01:34 AM
umm... either remember to (or double check that someone else has) take the cake serving set out of its packaging before you actually ANNOUNCE that your cutting the cake... :blush: It's not fun to stand there peeling plastic wrap off the set with people staring at you and cameras poised...

lizaanne
09-08-2006, 10:01 AM
Make a list of stuff to do, stuff to take, stuff to remember - several days before the wedding - and give this to your coordinator of the day so they don't have to ask you or remember everything.

The scuffy things you put on the bottom of the shoes are excellent! I've used them before and they are a perfect option to scuffing up new shoes on the sidewalk.

Don't put the rings in bulky ring boxes that look like bricks inside the best man's tuxedo. Use a small satin bag with a draw string (like the kind used for favors) to put the rings in so they won't make a bulge in his jacket.

~Liza

smiles
09-08-2006, 11:16 PM
Have a plan to eat a bite after the reception, because you will not eat much at the reception. Have someone prepare you leftover recetion food or something to snack on later.

Be everywhere early, so you're not stressing out. Also tell people earlier than you want then to be there, because there are always people who are always late, and you don't want to be freaking out waiting for them.

westerbritt
12-19-2006, 07:04 PM
Don't drink at the reception or don't drink that much. The day (and night) goes by so quickly and you want to be able to remember everything little thing.

Trinia
12-19-2006, 07:44 PM
Just subbing!

Angela
12-21-2006, 06:30 AM
Don't get upset over the little things that no one is noticing except for you--it doesn't matter at that point! I made LOVE letters for the cake table, and they weren't on it. I just didn't care at that point. I was happy the planning was over and we were finally married!

Becki
12-25-2006, 02:15 PM
DO take time to eat at the reception. Remember this is your day and you should enjoy it. We made a decision to sit down and eat during the dinner. We had picked out the food and wanted to enjoy it. We also made a point to sample all of the appetizers that were being passed around during cocktail hour. There was no way we were going to go hungry on our wedding day. Take time for yourself and make sure you get to enjoy the day. It sounds selfish, but don't worry if other people think you should be mingling during the dinner. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.

Jules
12-28-2006, 02:02 PM
We received the advice to eat dinner at our wedding, and we DID! :lick: I think we enjoyed the cake the most!

Speaking of cake, DH and I did not know how the heck to cut our cake (it was a four-tiered cake)! :hehe: We basically attempted to cut it, shoveled it onto a plate and then fed each other. The cake didn't look very pretty after that! But, it did taste good!

Jaci
01-04-2007, 04:31 PM
Delegate Delegate Delegate! You will not be able to get everything done by yourself, you will need help from other people. Relinquish control and give them a list, people will surprise you!

nikkiscott
01-11-2007, 02:54 PM
Delegate Delegate Delegate! You will not be able to get everything done by yourself, you will need help from other people. Relinquish control and give them a list, people will surprise you!

I like this idea, and I already have my list made up.....I just have to put peoples name by everything I need help with.

Angela
01-14-2007, 10:20 AM
Delegate Delegate Delegate! You will not be able to get everything done by yourself, you will need help from other people. Relinquish control and give them a list, people will surprise you!

Definitely! But if there is something that's really important to you and you want it done a certain way, do it yourself....it's easier than having to fix it or explain to someone exactly what you mean :)

Winter_Bride
01-16-2007, 11:20 AM
In the end (and this comes in handy in the final stages of planning) remember that guests WILL comment on how beautiful the bride looked, how "in love" the couple was, and how the food was.

Guests will NOT care if the napkins matched the BM dresses, if the bridesmaids dresses perfectly matched the groomsmen's vests, or if the bride carried roses or petunias!

In short, make sure your guests are taken care of, and TRY not to sweat the small things!

*TanyaJeanne*
01-16-2007, 11:23 AM
Remember a Tide to go Pen! This practically saved my wedding dress before the ceremony.

Also like others have said just try and have the best day possible. If you worry about the little things the whole day you won't have fun :)

Winter_Bride
01-16-2007, 11:26 AM
My other piece of advice - SCHEDULES!!!!

I printed out schedules that I gave to everyone in the wedding party (including parents) the night before. The result was that MOST everyone made it to pictures on time (DH's one grandma missed pictures entirely, so we had to take them with her during the reception, but it was no big deal), and because everyone knew where they should go and what was going on, we had a lot less people asking us, and we were really able to enjoy the day!

DH was in a wedding this summer where the night before we had no idea what time they were meeting before the wedding! We showed up a few hours early to the Bride and groom's house, but one GM got there just about the same time the ceremony was going to start (which was the only time he'd been given, so he assumed it was the meeting time). There was a lot of confusion, and very little commmunication!

kate
01-17-2007, 12:49 AM
My other piece of advice - SCHEDULES!!!!

I printed out schedules that I gave to everyone in the wedding party (including parents) the night before. The result was that MOST everyone made it to pictures on time, and because everyone knew where they should go and what was going on, we had a lot less people asking us, and we were really able to enjoy the day!
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I couldn't agree more! We gave everyone their schedules at the rehearsal dinner and I didn't have a single late person the next day. We were on time the entire day and I loved it! There were even times where DH and I had a break to talk to each other. :)

kate
01-17-2007, 12:54 AM
I just thought of another one- Check Your Alterations!

Make sure your dress is not too big on top when you leave your seamstress. Mine told me time and time again that she was taking it in on the top, and when I went to put it on the morning of my wedding it was too big. I spent most of my day yanking the stupid thing up. Nothing tackier than the bride falling out of her strapless dress.
Also, check and make sure all the hooks and ribbons are there for your bustle. My seamstress forgot a few hooks so we had to use safety pins to hold up the bustle. (not a big deal) She also told me she would use different color ribbons for the bustle so it would be color coded. Well she ended up using white and off white for all of it. Boy, was I glad I wasn't the one putting it up.
*Note for the emergency kit- Different sizes of safety pins. We used the large ones to pin my bustle up and smaller ones to pin the top of my dress tight.

Winter_Bride
01-17-2007, 11:22 PM
That's another good point! Make an emergancy kit, and give it to your MOH (or someone who will be with you ALL DAY to have!)

I always carry one around with the different sizes of safety pins, as well as thread in the color of the wedding dress, the color of the tuxes, and the color of the BM dress (doesn't have to be exact). Nail polish, bobby pins, etc. are good to have too! Don't count on someone else to have it, and don't count on NOTHING going wrong!

Raychel
03-12-2007, 06:50 AM
Definitely make sure you get enough sleep the night before. I know first hand it is easier said than done, but I really wish I could have slept more/better.

Sk8ermaiden
01-12-2008, 12:06 AM
Enjoy every moment. So many brides say their whole day was a blur and a flash and they hardly remember it. Just be present in every moment. It's so worth it.

laurak83
01-12-2008, 01:32 PM
I totally agree with the above statement. Make sure to pause and realize it's really happening!