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Marisa
10-12-2006, 02:45 PM
Pre-Ceremony - Marisa's version

The day began really early at about 3 a.m. I stayed in my office since I had made up the room for the first night with the special sheets and pillowcases. I was amazed that I was able to do so much laundry that early in the morning. I then put the rehearsal dinner pictures on the web site and finish packing for the honeymoon.

It was still dark when I headed out for private boot camp at the Botanical Gardens. I gave Steve my boot camp Journal and he appeared to be surprised. I offered to e-mail him the entry for the day. The morning was lovely, and I was able to witness a beautiful sunrise. I ran, walked, did lunches, and enjoyed the environment. It was a great way to start the day!

I drove into Hamilton and parked the car near the MAC store. I then walked the Lady Asser Hut for a shower. I slathered myself of jasmine scented lotion and was amazingly calm, as I walk to pick up the flowers for my hair and the boutonnière for my godfather. I had to wait a bit for the flowers which allowed me to read through few newspapers and think about my schedule for the day. When I arrived at the salon I surprised Sharon with her gift. I was able to nap under the dryer, which was great because I was starting to feel the bit tired. I was a little refreshed as my hair was put into the style. It looked even better than the trial and the orchids looked lovely. I received a great card from Sharon and the staff of Eden, and I was again off to the next appointment.

The makeup was a great appointment, because I felt that Tressa made me look awake! While Chantal had her makeup done I ran out to give my godfather his boutonnière since he would not be able to make it to the wedding. The boutonnière was really nice and I was eager to see the rest of flowers. Chantal and I were then on the way to my place to dress. We were the first to arrive at 1:30 p.m. The flowers were then delivered, and they were fabulous. I could not believe how wonderful the bouquets looked. The corsages were really lovely too. I loved how the rosebuds looked. I was getting excited, but I was still really calm.

My parents arrived with Alegna and soon Shirley, the fabulous coordinator, joined us. I put the cough links on my dad and gave my mom the London blue Topaz ring. Chantal and Alegna dressed for Charles, the photographer, arrival. He started with my dress and the pillows on the bed and then got into taking pictures of Alegna while I got into my dress (and more jasmine lotion!). We took a few pictures in the house while Shirley took Aidan’s cufflinks to the church. It was then time to go. Chantal, Alegna, my dad, and I got into the taxi and we were off to the church.

Pre-Ceremony - Aidan's version

I woke up at six am, collected all of my kit together, had breakfast and left the house at 7 for the Fairmont Southampton Hotel. I was due to play the bagpipes at 8am. I got dressed in the car park as usual and headed into the executive offices to warm up and tune up. The show that we were playing for ended up being late and the CEO for whom we were playing liked to be “fashionably late”. We performed the show and I left the hotel at about 9:15. I then took a few things, including a bed, to our new house. I then went back to my parents house, where I collected my flag boxes and headed to Commissioner’s House. I arrived there at about 11am and proceeded to decorate the flagpole with flags representing our combined families and the nationalities of the invitees, including those unable to be present. This took just over an hour.

I was supposed to meet Brendan and Suzie, Pete and Veronica for lunch at Coral Beach Club at 12pm. I received a call from them at 12:25 to say that they were running late, which was good because so was I. I had a good old fashioned bacon cheeseburger and fries for lunch. I arrived back at my parents house a little after two and proceeded to make my final preparations. At just after three, we headed down to the church to meet and greet and ensure that the final touches were falling into place. Everything was dropping into place quite nicely, so I let it run. Marisa apparently arrived at the church at 3:50, so I was instructed not to look out of the doors.

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Marisa
10-12-2006, 02:46 PM
Ceremony - Marisa's Version

We were early, but the guests were still arriving we got there. Chantal and I stayed in the taxi for about 15 minutes. So yes, we started 10 minutes late. I did not think about the time again until we got to the reception. There was no need to…

I remember walking into the church with my parents and thinking how wonderful it was to see everyone there and looking so genuinely happy. Alegna got halfway down the aisle and began to cry, and both Aidan and I were trying to get her attention to get her to go to the front. It was so precious to see Aidan stepped forward to try to get Alegna to come to him. When I got to the front with my parents, all I wanted to do was touch Aidan to make sure all of it was real. Indeed, it was! I don't think that I stopped smiling for the entire time we were at the front. Fr. Jerry’s homily was memorable because he told stories first about getting to know us - and the work I used to give to him during RCIA. The balls were definitely an experience. I had been practicing them since the rehearsal (especially at the salon with my cheat sheet) and still managed to flub the second line. The exchange of rings had a great smiling moment because Brendan had to put five rings on the plate to be blessed. It was like he was emptying his pockets of change! Aidan and I had to smile. Debbie’s singing of The Lord’s Prayer had me teary-eyed and I was in awe listening to Philip playing the violin during and after the signing of the register. When the fanfare trumpets went off at the end I was thinking “oh my goodness, I'm a wife!!!”

We walked out of the church and got into the horse and carriage that was decorated with blue ribbons. We got to speak with a few people and took a few pictures before we left. The ride was lovely, and I enjoyed it more than I expected. People in cars honked their horns and waved at us. We completed our carriage ride at Church Bay to took pictures at various locations. We then got into a taxi and went the final distance to Commissioner's House. That time alone after the ceremony was great and I recommend it to everyone to just catch your breath.


Ceremony - Aidan's Version
We were ready to go at 4pm on schedule, but unfortunately some of the guests were taking their time, so we eventually started at about 4:10. I tried to follow Brendan and Chantal at the prescribed 4 pew spacings, but with my parents on each side it was a bit difficult. Once I arrived at the front, I turned and watched Alegna walk down the aisle. She got about half way and then realized that she was by herself and started to cry. So we had to try to placate her. Once she made it to her parents she was fine. Marisa headed down the aisle looking very lovely with her parents alongside. She arrived at the front and our families exchanged greetings. The parents went back to their respective places and Marisa took my arm and we proceeded to the altar together.

The service proceeded and before we knew it, it was time to say our vows. Marisa of course had memorized hers, but I had to cheat. However, I did read a line at a time and repeat it to her to ensure that I was talking to her and not the book. Father Jerry handed over the dish for the rings and Brendan looked like he was emptying his pockets of change as he took out the five rings to be blessed. Then it was off to sign the register, whilst Marisa’s godfather Phillip played the violin, and before we knew it we were being introduced. A fanfare of trumpets and Handel’s Water Music and we headed out of the church and down the steps to the carriage whilst Josh played the pipes.

We sat in the carriage to allow as many people as possible to see us and then we proceeded out of the car park and along the road to Church Bay. It was nice to have a few quiet moments on our own and the photographer took a few shots whilst we were there. We then boarded the taxi to Commissioner’s House.

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Marisa
10-12-2006, 02:47 PM
Reception - Marisa's Version

The first thing I saw when we entered the Maritime Museum was the flags. Aidan had about 40 flags on the flagpole. We knew we were a bit behind time-wise but had about one hour and 15 minutes of slacking the timetable. We could theoretically catch up.

Walking up the steps and into Commissioner's House was indescribable. It was almost what I think walking into a movie premiere might be like. Everyone was taking pictures and calling out to us and coming to hug us, etc.. The cakes were set up on the table in the entrance hall, and they were beautiful! I put my bouquet down on the table between the cake so everyone could see the bouquet jewels. It was then off for family pictures. It was pretty well organized, and we got through them in good time. We then tried to catch up with our guests before the Regiment Band and the Pipe Band began to perform. They were fabulous and the dancers had me feeling so proud when they did the Barracks. I loved every minute of the performance and was on cloud nine when the bands played ‘Scots Wae Hae’ at marching pace.

We then got into the cake cutting. We started by looking at the knife and server since we had engraved our information on my parents set. We cut my cake, the Aidan’s cake and then served up a slice of each to feed each other. My goodness, the cakes were so good! It is a shame we do not eat more. We were then on to the second performance, and I danced the Highland Fling with the dancers and then watched the performance of the Sean Truibhas and the Sword Dance. The Pipe Band then washed into the building, and we were able to get into the dances. Aidan and I danced to ‘So In Love’ (he was so good) and we immediately followed by dancing with my dad and his mom to ‘The Way You Look Tonight’. My dad and I sang the words throughout the whole thing.

We still had a few things to do before the evening wound up. The speeches went well with Aidan, myself and Brendan doing the honors. Then came the shocker. Yes, there was belly dancing! A few of my students were good sports, and we ensure that many jaws hit the floor. Even Alegna had on a hip scarf. We rounded up the night with the performance to ‘One’. That really had people stunned to see Aidan with the top hat and cane. We had good fun with it and the energy we got back from everyone was fabulous.

Before you knew it the sparklers were being handed out. The time had gone pretty quickly, but we had made up for lost time! We walked out amid the sparklers. It was so beautiful. We stood in front of the taxi and looked out the sparkling Commissioner's House. As we boarded the taxi friends were calling out that they loved us. It was amazing. As we rode home we were happy that the whole day and evening had gone so well.


Reception - Aidan's Version

We arrived at Commissioner’s House and Josh played us in to the building where we spoke to a few people before heading outside to the balcony to take the formal photographs. Once that was complete, the massed bands of the Bermuda Regiment and Bermuda Islands Pipe Band marched onto parade for a short performance for us. They played “Scots Wa’ Hae” as a quick march as per Marisa’s request and she thoroughly enjoyed it. We went inside and cut the cake and met a few more people.

The pipe band organized themselves again and performed in front of the flagpole at sunset along with the dancers. Marisa could not resist performing the Highland Fling in her dress. Following this was our first dance. I remembered most of the steps and I think it worked out quite well. Marisa’s belly dancers did a short show. Again she couldn’t resist. Alegna joined in also. Marisa, Brendan and myself then each made a short speech and it was time for the last dance. Again, I remembered most of it, although the people were so stunned that I was actually doing something like that, that they probably wouldn’t have even noticed the mistakes I made.

The sparklers were passed around and lit and so it was time to go. So we headed out to the awaiting taxi as all of our adoring fans waved from the balconies, shut the door and drove off around the corner of the building and out of sight.

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Christa
10-22-2006, 07:23 PM
Congrats Marisa! You looked so beautiful. Your veil was amazing! You and Aiden both looked so happy, it looks like you had a wonderful day

Angela
10-22-2006, 08:30 PM
Congratulations! Everything was beautiful, and you both look so happy!

~LeAna~
10-23-2006, 08:36 AM
Congrats! You looked beautiful! I love your dress and your bouquet was stunning!

dolphincc
10-23-2006, 11:08 AM
Congratulations Marisa!! What a beautiful day. Everything looks terrific. I love the horse and carriage.

KathyandJer
10-23-2006, 11:20 AM
Wonderful pictures - everything looked beautiful!

MrsRea
10-23-2006, 12:52 PM
Very pretty pictures. It looked like you two had a great time!

Marisa
10-23-2006, 02:38 PM
Thanks so much!!!! I'm trying to get Aidan to write his version....

Marisa
10-24-2006, 01:45 PM
Professional Pictures :bliss: You're welcome to take a look (http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=13jsx8ds.1yweudmc&x=0&y=f2cjyx)

dolphincc
10-24-2006, 02:47 PM
Great pro pics, everything looks like so much fun.

Christa
10-25-2006, 06:58 PM
Your pro pics are great!

nikkiscott
10-26-2006, 06:37 PM
The story and the pics look great.

Hughto
10-26-2006, 07:46 PM
You look awesome! And the day looks like such a success! I love the pro pics!

BTW, CONGRATS!

Marisa
11-12-2006, 04:40 AM
Six more reception pictures....

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belle67
11-12-2006, 08:19 AM
What a beautiful wedding Marisa! Congratulations!

Aramelle
11-12-2006, 07:18 PM
Everything looked wonderful. Congratulations, Marisa and Aidan.

MostlyMel
11-12-2006, 10:51 PM
Congratulations... everything looked so beautiful!

mrs.g
11-13-2006, 12:53 PM
Congratulations!!! Your wedding was beautiful!!!!

j's beautiful
11-16-2006, 01:29 PM
Congrats Marisa!!! Everything looked beautiful and it looked like you all had a lot of fun!!

Jaci
11-16-2006, 02:06 PM
Fantastic!

Marisa
11-17-2006, 09:37 AM
I have managed to start uploading video on the wedding website. I put our first dance and last dance up last night using the windows media player format. The quality isn't great but it works!

Kristie
11-19-2006, 12:30 AM
Sooooo Pretty!
Your pro pictures are very nice!! Congratulations! :D

Sabby12s
11-30-2006, 09:58 PM
What a beautiful and unique wedding! I love how you got your husband to write his side of the story.

belle67
12-06-2006, 02:13 AM
What a beautiful wedding Marisa! Everything looked amazing!
Congratulations!
I just had to mention to you that I was reading your HM story on your website and I saw that you went to Europe. So did we! We did did a driving tour rather than a boat tour (that would have been so neat!) and we went to Germany, Czech Republic, Austria, Switzerland, Lietchtenstein and a layover in Amstersam.
I am working on our HM story but I have all of our 615 pics posted up on shutterfly (see sig). You will notice that we went to Nuremburg as well! That was one of my favourite cities. :)

finallymarried06
12-06-2006, 06:46 PM
WOW Marisa.. your pictures are just BEAUTIFUL!! Congrats!