Who does this?

[Krissy]

So sis is getting married on Saturday. She sent out the readings to the people doing them last week. Her FHs cousin calls her yesterday saying, "Hi, I can't do the reading you sent me. What about this....." Basically he says it's not fit for a wedding, blah blah blah. WTF? Since when is it your decision? My sister picked it out and she and her FH want it read. Who are you to chose it?

It's funny cause it's not even the point of the reading...it's more that he has the balls to say it shouldn't be read and he'll pick something else. Hello, it's not your frickin' wedding!

I just got off the phone with her cause I am printing the programs and I wanted to know what she had worked out. She still hasn't talked to him tonight. She's really peaved but usually she's too nice to say anything. My suggestion was to be like, "Ok, well, I understand if you don't want to do the reading. Thanks anyway, we'll find someone else." It shouldn't be up to him to decide. It's HER wedding!

Ok, I feel better now.

[Angela]

What a nut job! I'd tell him never mind, we'll find someone else....sheesh.

[-->Kat<--]

:no: oh heck no... if you don't want to read it, that's fine... but I'll be damned if you're going to criticize it and then pick something else for you to read... I'd be putting me foot down, all over his backside! :lol:

[carolinalady67]

Oh that would make me mad! :hopmad: I hope your sister sticks to what she wants read.

[Krissy]

I was over there tonight and she's beginning to look for other readings. I don't know what she'll do. She wanted to call him while I was there cause she thought I would help her stick to her guns. But he didn't answer.

In the end, it's only a reading. But it's the principle behind it!

[carolinalady67]

It is just a reading. But it is her wedding not his. I hope making the change isn't something she will regret later. How does her FH feel about the matter? Does it mean that much to him to have his cousin do the reading that he wants to change the reading?

[Poloke]

Kick his butt!....

Your sis picked what she wanted, she should stay with that and just have someone else read it if he's going to be so rude about it. *sheesh* some ppl!

[~LeAna~]

What a jerk! Yeah I would be finding someone else to do the reading.

[Maria 05]

:hammer: If she and her FH want it then fine if he doesnt want to read it fine but telling her "oh I wont read that I will read this" NOT FINE AND I think someone needs to borrow my hammer :hammer:

[Krissy]

LOL you're right Maria!

I'm still waiting to find out what she decides so I can print up the programs. Her FH isn't saying much cause he doesn't want to rock the boat. But her FMIL is just like, "tell him to screw!" lol.

[*Ashley*]

It's unfortunate, but tact isn't something you can give as a gift.

Sheesh. It's HER wedding!!!

[*Diane*]

:pointlaugh: How would you wrap that, Ashley? Wrap it in a sheet of "MYOB" and tie it with a big bow of " :moon: out" ? :lol:

[lunarmagic]

LOL Diane!

I would definitely tell him to stick it. If he "can't" read it she should say "I'm sorry to hear that" and find someone else. NO WAY would I find something else for him to read. What nerve!!

[Krissy]

Well, she ended up cancelling the third reading all together. I'm glad she stuck to her guns.

[*Diane*]

:clap: Good for her! Good for her!

[Jaci]

That sucks! But still, that guy, seriously!

I had one of my readers get sick the week before and I was like, But, but, you are already on the program! Actually, I asked if her husband would do it for us and she thought it was a great idea, though in the end, she actually surprised us and did it herself.

[carolinalady67]

I'm glad she didn't "reward" his behaviour by changing the reading for him. But it is to bad she lost a part of her wedding because of it all.