One person you didn't want to invite

[smiles]

In most families there is one person you had to invite, but didn't want to invite? Who was that person? Why didn't you want to invite them?

[*TanyaJeanne*]

Chris had a couple people he didn't want to invite. They were just family members that just had separated themselves from the family, but his mom wanted us to send them a invite...

[Poloke]

Two of my cousins- One is a drunk who cannot control herself, and the other cousin never even bothers to show up for Christmas-the one time of year our family gets together, he's always "too busy" to show up for a few hours on Christmas Eve. I would rather not invite them, but it would cause too much of a rift in the family so they are still on the list.

[Angela]

Just ONE?!?! Lol...

Has to be one uncle who makes an ass out of himself whenever he has a drink in him. he thinks he's kewl sh*t, but he's really just an ass. I have another uncle on drunk patrol to kick him out if he starts to cause problems.

[jrbecca]

My FFIL's girlfriend. She has a reputation for being a homewrecker, is sickly sweet, adores my FFIL (this makes her nuts right off the bat), and will burst into song spontaneously.

[QueenElizabeth22]

Right now since the guest list isn't finalized, I only have one and my FI has one too. Mine is not a family member, but someone who works with my Dad. My Dad says he needs to be invited, I dislike him and don't want him there...I am not gonna battle on this one though as we are having a fairly large wedding and don't think I will need to see him much during the day.

My FI's is his grandmother...we have dated for two years and I haven't even met the woman, he says he 'hates' her...but she will be invited too.

[KathyandJer]

I don't believe there's anyone on the list that we didn't want to invite. Now, I know that each of Jer's parents would like it if we'd not invite the other one, but they'll have to suck-it-up and deal with it :lol:

[~Lizzybeth~]

That would be my cousin Michelle. She is painfully annoying. She is the one that decided she HAD to get married on July 1, just 20 days before my wedding and she has only been with the guy for 9 months.

[MrsAbi]

FFIl and his wife. I really can't stand them. FFIL cheated on his first wife (FMIL) with his second wife. Then he cheated on his second wife (while she was serving in Iraq!) with his current wife. His current wife was also cheating on her then husband. While they we cheating on their respective spouses, they got pregnant a couple times and ended the pregnancies. The divorces went through and they got married during the 3rd pregnancy. They had that baby and she became pregnant again. They had that one a year later (almost to the day) and he finally got 'fixed'.

They live near us and I did some babysitting for them. His wife just went on and on about how his second wife took all this money from him and got so much out of the divorce. Um, hello, he cheated on her with you, crazy bitch! She also told me, several times, that the second baby was an accident. Who admits that? Repeatedly?

Anyway, FMIL and Wife #2 are invited. We're hoping that keeps FFIL and StepWitch at home.

I need to go calm down now.

[nikkiana]

I can't think of anyone I specifically wanted to exclude, but there were a few distant cousins that I didn't feel were really necessary to invite.

[*Ashley*]

One, and she's not invited. This girl my FH dated back in HS. A couple of years ago he went to Austin for the UT vs. A&M football game. Well, they went out that night after it since the game was late and he she gave him a call. He told her what bar they were at and that she was welcome to come say hi (he hadn't seen her in a few years, no big deal). Anyhow, he wans't going to her. So later that night she showed up at the bar as they were all leaving (her brother was with her) and they said hi, yadda yadda. Well needless to say, she was told him that she and her boyfriend had broken up and asked if we were still together. He said yes and she said well do you wanna call her now and break up with her so we can hook up? He was like, uh, no. She was like, why not and he said because I love her and I'm not doing that. So he turns around to talk to her brother and she starts running her fingers through his hair and on the back of his neck -- he didn't do anything -- what was he supposed to do, her brother was standing in front of him and if he was rude he'd start a fight.

He came home, told me EVERYTHING (after our friend Ambyr bitched him out because she thought he was being bad since she only saw the tail end) and said it made him realize how happy he is with me :)

She's not coming, no way, no how. If someone brings her as a date, she will probably be asked to leave -- I've never met her, and never want to.

[serda23]

Hmm... hands down its Jeff's brother. :) The guy just irks me. lol. But, he is his brother, and they actually get along, so I will just keep some distance between us.

[Rebecca]

Hoping the situation will take care of itself before the big day but Tim's best friend from grade school who introduced us is dating one of the 3 enemies I have in life! Will make for an interesting situation. John did not even tell us they were seeing each other, I had to find out when I went home to visit!

[Maria 05]

An aunt and uncle I invited them and they turned up uninvited and unexpected the day before the weddding and stayed for hours then the day of my aunt fussed the hairdresser who was doing my hair.

[yogi_deuce]

My mil. That is it.

[Becki]

I'm also in the "only one?" category.
I guess if I have to narrow it down, I'd say FMIL. There's no way I'm getting out of inviting her though :caught:

[RadishWife]

I have a couple
1) My husband's ex roommate that screwed him out of a ton of money but since her parents and my in-laws are buddies they were all invited. She had the nerve to walk up to me after we were married and asked if I wadded up the invitation and mailed it to her (I guess it came to her all shredded.) how do you answer that question?
2) My cousin that is just a weirdo!

[katieandalex]

It wasn't just 1 person....it was a whole family. I really didn't want to invite my dad's whole side of the family. I don't think my dad would have cared if I didn't invite them, but I kind of a felt obligated to invite them...

[Deidre98]

I would love to not invite my aunt and uncle that I can't stand but that would never fly. Oh and my mom's really annoying computer geek cousin. Ugh...sometimes I hate family.

[CdnStealthGirl]

I didn't want to invite my Dad's siblings and spouses. I invited them because I thought I should. Neither couple came. They weren't missed at all! :)

[~LeAna~]

I have a whole family, my uncle, my aunt and their kids (they're all older than me). They always seem to ruin every holiday they attend. They act like they deserve everything just given to them and everything is about them. My uncle complains loudly about everything.

For example, Tim and I went home to celebrate our engagement with my family, aunts, uncles, cousins, you name it. Everyone was congratulating us and looking at the ring, asking us whether we had decided any details. He and his wife didn't even acknowledge us.

Then my dad had bought champagne. He made a speech welcoming Tim to the family and everyone toasted us. We all took a sip and my uncle announced that HIS daughter would be married the August after mine. Mind you she was not at the party. She lives in NC and hasn't been home in months.

Like seriously, couldn't he have just let us have the moment?? Jerk. I'm hoping they don't come at all.

[Andrea]

I really wish I didn't have to invite children to the wedding, but i want my one 15 yr old cousin in my party as a jr. bmaid. oh lord, there would be hell to pay if the others weren't invited.

From my dad's side, I know he would be hurt by this, but honestly gurls, why would I want to invite ppl to my wedding that I honestly only ever see like maybe every 2 christmas's, if im lucky

[bnd94]

I got lucky, I didn't want to invite my Mother's side of the family(minus 3 people). We decided we didn't want a reception and our ceremony is on top of a mountain. It's a 2 mile hike so I doubt I will be seeing any of them up there! :hehe: Problem solved

[BJ'sBabyGirl]

My Mom! She embarasses me to no end. She is not coming to any of the venue visits or anything because I just can't stand the way she acts. She always has a way of getting on my last nerve and driving me insane on important days (graduation, pageants, prom, etc.). I kind of have to invite her for obvious reasons, but all of my BMs as well as a few other people will know when I give them the 'look' she is to be escorted away from me.

[septbride]

FH's brother! I DO NOT like him, many reasons why, won't bore anyone with the details, just bad feelings here! :ohreally:

[*meghan*]

I have a mean, snotty aunt and uncle that I really don't want to invite, but my mom and my other aunt (the mean aunt's sisters) said I should. Her and her children (my cousins, who are NOT invited) are so snobby and never care about anyone else in the family except for themselves. I have made multiple trips (5 hours away) to visit my grandparents when they were both in the hospital at different times, and neither my aunt, uncle, nor cousins went to visit them, and they live in the same town as my grandparents! I'm pretty sure they won't come, and if they do, it will only be for the free food.

[jillian]

My crazy aunt. She is going to make a scene, she's is going to make a scene. I seriously cannot take this woman. Oh boy she's crazy. If I were to explain her I'd have to dedicate at least 5 threads to her craziness. Now I'm going to have wedding nightmares about her.

[Andrea]

jillian, tell us just one story about yur crazy aunt

[jillian]

Short story: She sleeps in my late mother's night shirt.

[Coze]

Hi hi-

I didn't want to invite these people that we know through a mutual friend, but they signed our guestbook, and are at the friend's house many times when we are talking about the wedding. Kind of feel obligated because of how much they know and because we are having the wedding at a 'family' house.

TTFN...
D.J.

[Mandy]

We actually have a couple. Chad has a massive family and many of them I've never met. Last week was the family reunion and apparently his dad had alrady told everyone there about it and everyone is expecting an invite! :dope:. I also have some old friends who are pulling the 'I better get an invite" thing on me, but I'm not too sure I'll be buying into it. Also, Chad's step sister and her boyfriend are huge pains in the butt and have caused more than one family issue...I REALLY wish I didn't have to invite them...:disbelief:

[Coze]

Hi hi-

I so am not falling for the 'I better get an invite' thing. The way that I look at it is those people that I REALLY don't want to be there, won't be invited. Sure, they may be a little hurt, but the place is only so big and only holds so many people is my excuse.

TTFN...
D.J.

[rowanmayfairs]

I invited some people I have known since I was a kid. Most aren't showing up and I'm more than thrilled. But I had to be polite.

There is a woman who works for us occasionally..her husband is a drunk and always has a beer in his hand. NOT serving alchohol at the wedding so hopefully he will be too busy to attend. The woman is really nice but she has a history of marrying drunks.

[belle67]

All of my dad's family except my aunts and uncle and a few close first cousins. Everyone else I don't like and they always make every party and celebration about them... you know, attention getters. So I didn't invite them. :heee:

[*Stacie*]

The people I didn't want to invite are not coming.. HALLELUJAH!!

[KathyandJer]

Short story: She sleeps in my late mother's night shirt.

Oh Jillian - we could hook her up with my eccentric uncle - he still wears his late father's watch, uses his late father's hairbrush (even though there's next to no bristles left) and has a SHRINE to his late mother on a table in his livingroom!

But as eccentric as this guy is, thankfully he and I have always gotten along very well!

[BrightEyes]

FH and I don't want his cousins there... two guys: one is a pothead and one is a shallow drunken asshole who thinks he is better than anyone else. We have to invite them but I am hoping that the asshole doesn't come. The pothead isn't too bad.

[Christa]

FBIL. I can't stand the guy. I just won't talk to him though.

[Trinia]

I feel real bad saying this but Ev's mom.. Of she doesnt come it will break his heart but Im scared of her making a scene or something of she does come.

[Hughto]

My step father's parents. My step brother. Aaron's Ex roommates new wife.

[Jaci]

FH's grandma, she is exactly the negative prude we didn't want to invite, but I knew I had to. She is the kind of person who will sit and say judgmental stuff about everyone, with a very negative, uppity "church going" attitude (now now, I'm not saying bad stuff about church goers, but she is one of those, you know, people who really push it on others).

We are lucky though. She didn't know when the wedding date was (her fault, not ours, we told her) so she booked a trip to Iraq (a church construction or religion spreading trip, I'm not sure which one) that is exactly when the wedding is.

Woot!

[Kirsten]

My cousin J. . . . she was supposed to get married last October and broke it off about a week after the invites went out (she'd been engaged for about 2 years and seeing her FH for about 3 years before that). Then she didn't return any of the shower gifts. Come to find out she was cheating on her FH for about 3 years and immediately after breaking it off with her FH moved in with The New Guy. I know the family wants me to accept The New Guy with open arms, but I actually liked her ex-FH. . . so did Zack (my FH). Zack and I kept trying to think of a way to get the ex-FH to our wedding without offending anyone. We still haven't figured that part out.

[Stitch's girl]

My uncle (mom's brother) and his wife. I didn't even know I HAD an uncle until I was 13, and he lived a half hour away! He and my mom detest each other, and are always fighting, but she insisted he be invited... I think she figured it would cause more fighting if we didn't invite him and he found out about it from one of their other sisters. And my grandmother passed away a year and a half ago and told my mom beforehand that she wanted her to try and keep the family together. So my mom is sucking it up, and making me invite the guy...he is a real piece of work, borderline criminal.

[melissa3881]

My BIL...too bad he was the best man! :lol: He's just strange...he gave the DUMBEST toast too!

[Ally]

its not that i dont want to invite this person cuz i dont care if he is there, but i just dont want him to be part of the wedding party. so its not quite the same. It is one of FH's best friends, but is a total jerk. She is so rude to me or just rude in general. He has this thing towards women right now, and its really annoying.

[sweetiez]

omg! im also in the "Only one?!!!?" section! Oh my god!
first off fh's grandma on his mom side. Yeah she is just NUTS!!! SHES EVIL. i could go into detail. but really honestly.. u dont even wanna know what this woman has done! *Shurgs*

Also Fh's god parents which also are his aunt and uncle!
hIS UNCLE IS PRIEST which we orginally asked hem to marry us! But nope. He had to "think" and cuz we had a child he wont i mean omg HIS FAMILY! its just wowed me over i can't believe it! . And he also told us he forbids us to be married in a church he said a TON more that were just so aweful! To us!
uNFORTUANLLY we are inviting both of them im so upset by it. but hopefully they will not show. fh doesnt want his family mad at hem for not inviting them. His mom is incharge of the invites on there said so if she doesnt give us her addy then hahaha. or any of them.
But i do believe his uncles is on there. But oh well i have a feeling they wont show anyways!!

I dont want steve my moms bf to go i freaking cant stand hem!! Honestly. he tries to tell us what to do like we are kids. im just fed up with it!

phew so yeah there!

[Kya]

Marc's Mom!

[Jessica!]

Heath doesn't want to invite some grandparents on his dads side, I think it is? I've never met them. Heath tells me they are pretty rude and only call if they want something.

I can't think of anyone in my family they I wouldn't want to invite. My family is great.

[Stitch's girl]

Still haven't heard from the uncle I don't want there... I REALLY don't want to call and ask if he is coming!

[PurpleFlower]

I didn't want to invite one of my mom's brothers, his wife (who I hate!), and there 1/2 a dozen kids. Long story but I really don't want any of their kids to come at all! They are older (around my age) Anyway one told one of Ken's best friends moms that I was a a suck up, spoiled B****! I have disliked her ever since. I don't think they will come anyway, well keeping my fingers crossed!
I don't think there is anyone else that I really don't want to come but i may run into some more!

[stephjhudson]

My FMIL thinks she has to invite everyone she's ever met..(well, close anyways)
there are some distance step relatives on my FH's side his mom wants to invite, even though we've never met them and she hasnt even seen them in years!
I dont want to fill up my guest list with people I don't know

[Wren]

One of my husbands friends, we have since made nice. Howeve, at the time I refused to allow her near my wedding.

[Bri]

I can't think of anybody that I really don't want to invite, even though we should... but I know my mother and I are going to butt heads when it comes to the tiny bit that there is to my side of the family. There's nobody on my dad's side, and there's only one aunt and two cousins (plus their families) that I would have to think about on my mom's side... my mom and them don't get along at all, so I don't know. Guess we'll see what happens....

[nikkiscott]

There is more then one person that we don't want to invite. But so far only one will not be getting a invite and thats fh one sister. He doesn't like her, nor does he call her his sister. They are so far apart, they were never close and neither one of us like her life style chose. So she will not be getting a invite and we will escort her out if she shows up. We don't want her to be there. Its all taken care of if she shows up. Sure it might ruffle some feathers, but its out wedding and we only want people there that we care about and that we love and are great friends. She doesn't fit into any catagory no matter how you look at it. I am sure that there will be more.

[BizBis]

Suprisingly, There aren't any people that I don't want to invite, that I didn't. One that I feel I must invite, eventhough we are no longer close, is my old friend Sarah. This girl is so horrible that my mother had to tell her that she can't come on their property! She slept with an old boyfriend of mine, while I was dating him, but me being young and stupid, dumped him and took her side. I should have just told her where to go, too! We went on being friends and then I moved to OK for the summer one year and get this- she starts dating yet another one of my ex-boyfriends! She is a total attention hog and she always steals the spotlight! My 21st birthday was ALL about her and how she and her man had gotten engaged. (They never married) The only reason I am even considering giving her an invite is b/c I absolutely adore her parents. They are a little nosy, but they were there for me through some pretty trying times. I actually, now that I am writing this, think I am going to take her off the list. She doesn't deserve to be there! Thanks guys, you really just made a desicion for me that has been stressing me out! You guys are so wonderful and I truly enjoy reading your ideas and your stresses! It's nice to know, I am not the only one!! I hope everyone's days go off without a hitch (Well, except for the important "hitching")!

[soulmates]

My aunt's husband (yes that would make him my uncle). They have been together my whole life, their oldest child is only 9 months younger than me. They got married a month after we got engaged. I have never like this guuy. He's just a jerk. I do have to say he does seem to have changed a bit lately but I'm not ready to drop my gaurd when it comes to him.

[Vanessaness]

There's actually a few. :( I'm not particularly close to my step dad. But I respect him, sorta, as my mom's husband. Or I should say because she's my mom and because I love her and respect her I'm civil towards him. He has daughters I've only casualy met before. But my mom insists that I invite them. Meaning I would have to put some of my personal friends on the B list to make room for these people who are supposedly "family". I don't like that idea but I'm not sure how to tell my mom this. :sigh: It just makes me sick to my stomach to have to put my personal friends aside for people I hardly know. Specially since Jim and I are paying for this on our own.

[Mischie]

I didnt want my uncle gordie

[Winter_Bride]

A HUGE list of DH's relatives that I didn't know I didn't want there until after the wedding!! They invited themselves to the RD (we were only having it for people immediately involved in the wedding, we had other things planned for our OOT guests!!!) and were SO RUDE to me at my own reception!! They said "hi" when I made my rounds to the tables, but promptly turned around and continued their conversations! I wasn't expecting much, but a nice "Congratulations", or a "wow, you looked so beautiful today" would have been nice.....

[Jaci]

There's actually a few. :( I'm not particularly close to my step dad. But I respect him, sorta, as my mom's husband. Or I should say because she's my mom and because I love her and respect her I'm civil towards him. He has daughters I've only casualy met before. But my mom insists that I invite them. Meaning I would have to put some of my personal friends on the B list to make room for these people who are supposedly "family". I don't like that idea but I'm not sure how to tell my mom this. :sigh: It just makes me sick to my stomach to have to put my personal friends aside for people I hardly know. Specially since Jim and I are paying for this on our own.

:( that is pretty rude of your mom. How old are these stepsisters?

[Dmsangel]

One of fh's friends practically ruined another friends wedding because he was so drunk. I don't want him there but don't really have a choice.

[jenn2350]

I don't want FBIL's skanky girlfriend there....she's going to try to ruin it.

[Andrea]

:headscratch: I can't remember if I posted in here...for some reason this thread is POPPING out in my head.

ANYWAYS...I have this uncle who is a real loser as well as a BOOZER. I'm sorry to say that about "loved" family HOWEVER...I have seen him at past weddings and I really honestly don't want him there.LOL this won't happen because he's my mother brother (obviously because he's an UNCLE) but the family would be HIGHLY offended if I didn't. Im just gunna hafta tell the Bartender to keep a CLOSE CLOSE watch

[Dmsangel]

Andrea, I have two uncles like that. We don't talk to them at all though so they won't be invited.

[Andrea]

thanks...im glad someone understands. Oh and get this...I dunno but this would piss me off. My cousin got married and you wanna know what my uncle wore to his wedding...a pair of jeans loafers and a sport logo t shirt :banghead: :hopmad:

[Vanessaness]

:( that is pretty rude of your mom. How old are these stepsisters?


They're about my age up to about 5 years younger.

But I've since talked to my mom and have agreed not to invite them at this time. I'm sure they'll understand. *insert huge sigh of relief* :happytears:

[Mrs. Bebe]

This is a really complicated question for me, and I would LOVE some advice.
My father, who is deceased, had several marriages. In those, he had children. There are six of us from a total of four marriages. I am very close to my one blood brother, but really don't know or care about my half/step siblings. At the same time, two of my oldest brothers (half siblings) were fairly involved in my life until my father passed away. There was ugliness since then, mostly dealing over property...

Here's my question: Do i "HAVE" to invite my immediate family, regardless of tensions? Do I have to invite my step mother (my father has been gone for three years, but they were married for ten years before that). My full-brother is not on speaking terms with any of them (long story) and I'm scared of the confrontation that could ensue if i invite them. At the same time I'm scared of what could happen if I don't. They also have children that I would love to see...

Confused!!!

[Dmsangel]

I wouldn't invite them just because they're family. Especially if there's ugliness.

[laurak83]

It sounds like part of you wants to see them. You could always invite them, and if they decide to come forewarn your ushers to seat them in seperate areas. If you are having seating during the reception you can seat them far apart there as well. That is our solution for feuding family members.

I guess it depends on whether or not you'd like to rekindle a relationship with your older half-brothers also, fighting over property is a poor reason to ruin a relationship. It sounds like they haven't made the step, but perhaps you could to be the bigger person.

[Dmsangel]

I see it as it would be a big deal to have a "reunion"...and I know I wouldn't want to have to worry about that during my wedding.

[AnnMarie0624]

my brother's gf - I loathe her! :curse:

[lunarmagic]

Yes - Den's uncle. He's a bit of a weird guy, but most of all our wedding was only immediate family (parents, his grandma, siblings) and our close friends. NO other aunts and uncles were invited. However we had to invite this particular one because he lives with Den's gram and he goes everywhere with her. :sigh:

[Shannafanatic86]

Easy, my grandmother. Everyone feels bad for her because noone likes her so they all listen to her. Then she tries to tell us that we are so mean because we don't like her (we've never told her that, she figured it out on her own) and everyone else loves to listen to her. Horrid.

[flasoxgirl]

My FMiL's friend who is a raging alcoholic. I have met her several times and have never ever seen her sober. She almost always causes a huge scene when she is drunk but she is one of those people that people seemed "used to". FH and his sister both agree that they didn't think she should be invited but she is FMiL's best friend and while she agrees that she is annoying she still is friends with her. My family are not drinkers and I was freaking out that she would cause some embarassing scene at the wedding. She is also the type that gets irate if you tell her that she needs to slow down her drinking, even on a specific night, as FMiL has tried to do in the past.

Luckily she created one scene too many and everyone had enough. FH went out with his mom and her to a bar one night when I was sick. The friend punched the guy who was supposed to be the "DD" for the night. I had to wake up and go pick everyone up at 2AM becaue the friend was nowhere to be found. At that point FH agreed that there was no way she was invited to the wedding.

Phew

[DeeGeeBride2Be2009]

The only person I don't want to invite is my 20 year old sister. She has a mouth that would embarrass a sailor. She curses constantly and has a remark for everything. She's racist, crude and just downright unpleasant. I refuse to invite her. Michael's family rarely curses. The only time I've ever heard his mom swear was during an Astros game. lol! I just don't want Courtney (my sister) opening her big mouth and making my family instantly look like white trash. The only thing that makes me sad about not inviting her is that my oldest niece won't be there. But I am willing to sacrifice that in order to have my wedding without her constant racial slurs and cursing.

[RadishWife]

This is a little off topic but I do not want to invite my sister's friend. She is trash and I mean that in the since of the word. She had two not ONE drug addicted baby because she was on drugs and the only good thing she did was give up the babies... I think she is trash.
I so do not want to invite her, see her or hear her.

[Sabby12s]

We didn't want to invite my DH's Uncle. His son had just been convicted of statutory rape and was in all sorts of other trouble. That whole side of the family was a mess so we thought it would be better to just avoid a scene. Especially where we got married in Vegas. We thought it would be too tempting for that family to get in trouble.

[KelciAlexandra]

right now there are about a dozen people on my NOT to invite list

1) one of my cousins on my mom's side... she was really mean to me growing up and always tried to ruin things for me... the last time i talked to her was freshman year of high school, we had a fight that ended up in me trying to walk away, she pulled the back of my hoodie and dragged me across the sidewalk and now i have a scar on my hip... yea not such a nice person... but she'll probably end up coming because her grandma and my grandma are sisters and best friends

2) my older sister... she's 25 and acts like a snoty attention grabbing drama starting 15 yr old

3) most of fh's family (he doesnt like them either so its ok)... they really are white trash and could care less if we got married or not... they just want us to start popping out babies now like his 17 year old sister (theyre so proud of her having a baby while still in high school and cant wait for more)

[Pearl]

We dislike each others parents.

[plan2be]

one of my lover's friends!

[Kara_kw]

Ooo yea. FH's uncle...he's justa loose cannon, you never know what to expect. FH's has no patience for him so I hope this guest can behave...we've got FH's grandmother on the case! haha Usually if she's close by he stays cool, so she won't let him out of earshot!

[Kiera]

I wish that I didn't have to invite one of my aunts. We REALLY don't get along to say the least, and she's one of the last people I want to see on my wedding day. But, she's family and it was a given that I'd have to invite her regardless of our history.

[jillian]

I said I didn't want to invite my crazy aunt but did of course. She turned out to be entertaining in my WDS. So you never know...

[foronceinmylife]

The only people we're inviting from my FH family is his mom and his uncle. He does not associate with anyone else. It's his choice. I support him.

[Jader]

I have a couple white trash cousins with a million and ten kids that I don't want to invite and at first my mom kind of guilt tripped me about inviting some of my cousins and not them, so I put them on the list but now with current drama my mom has kind of decided they don't need to come. :excited:

FMIL insists on inviting people Troy and I don't know...so those are the people I really don't want to invite and more than likely won't invite either.