Bio

[RadishWife]

My daughter’s bio is so spiteful and vengeful and I am the one that is all alone in this. I have to care because my daughter has expressed an interest in him and yes he flakes out he says he will come by never shows, but when she calls and cancels plans he goes into a tirate and gives her the silent treatment for weeks… this time resulting in her missing her own half-sister’s birthday. We would like to send her a gift but I have no way to get a hold of them… phones may be disconnected.

I am tried of this. I have a great husband but it grates on his nerves because he is so good with her and hates this. I feel alone because often I am the go between. It wears me out just to talk with bio and his girlfriend I want to explode and scream but I can not.

[carolinalady67]

:hug99:

I will never understand how anyone can treat their child like that. All you can do is keep being there for her. Offer her the love and support she will never fully get from him. It is great that she has someone like your husband in her life. As she grows up she learn to appreciate that more and more, tell him to hang in there. Best wishes to you all to put up with the situation.

[KelciAlexandra]

i didnt officially meet my dad until i was 8 and up until about the age of 11 i thought he was the greatest thing on earth even though he always lied to me and would flake on me. . . my mom never said anything bad about him but she didnt say any thing good about him either. . . i had to find out for myself how big of a dick he was which im ok with because i got to make my own decision. . . im gonna tell you that this whole thing isnt gonna be easy but let your daughter know that she should be able to do what makes her happy, that she doesnt have to always try and please him and the BIG thing is that she needs to know that it IS NOT her fault that he treats her like that. . . just let her know that thats how he is and thats how he's always going to be and if she plans on doing things with him that she needs to expect this kind of behavior. . . thats the best advice i can give you and i hope everything works out!

[~LeAna~]

I'm so sorry Michelle... that must be awful to deal with. My mother dealt with this with my brother and I. The only words of encouragement I have is that eventually she will see how he is and will appreciate everything that you and your husband did for her. It took me a long time to realize it, but I did eventually, I saw him for who he was. It was the hardest realization ever but it happened.

[Jaime]

That sucks! I am so sorry! Thank goodness she has your DH in her life!