What are you worried about going wrong?

[Kiki]

Lots of brides worry...heck who doesn't? What are you worried will go wrong on your wedding day, and do you have a backup plan, or what are you doing to prevent it from happening?

[~LeAna~]

The one thing I am most worried about is spilling something on my dress or getting dirty! I can be a huge klutz!

[Coze]

Hi hi-

I have to come down a set of stairs into the common area and I am SOOOO worried about falling down the stairs as I make my grand entrance.

TTFN...
D.J.

[KathyandJer]

I'm concerned about the white dress thing. I purposely don't buy anything white, because every darn time I do, I end up with a stain on it the very first time I wear it!

I'm buying the Tide To Go pens for the bathroom baskets just for me, I swear! One of my BM's told me she'd make me a really long bib to wear for dinner :lol:

Otherwise, I think I'm just worried about getting everything done in the next year - planning a wedding, immigration and a move??? It's alot on my plate right now!

[*TanyaJeanne*]

That I will get/be really sick *knock on wood*

[Angela]

Getting my dress dirty.....getting sick....one of the vendors not showing up.

That's it. Just the major, really crazy stuff that could go wrong.

[Jaci]

Yeah, I think I'm most worried about getting a migraine or something. I haven't had one since sophomore year in college, but that would be my luck, because those things put me out for days.

[Sk8ermaiden]

The thing I want the most for my wedding is for everyone to have a whole lot of fun, so the thing that I worry about the most is the party falling flat, having a bad DJ, running out of alcohol, people leaving early, etc.

[katieandalex]

I'm just worried that things are going to be unorganized and people won't know where they need to be and such. That is seriously my only worry....so thats why I'm going to be making a detailed timeline for the rehearsal day and the wedding day and also making sure my personal assistant knows where everyone is supposed to be when so she can make sure my day is run smoothly for me. :) I love my personal assistant!

[Cindy]

I'm worried about crying and not being able to stop!

[*meghan*]

I'm worried that my mom and sister won't be civil to each other for the entire weekend - they have no relationship whatsoever, and that's a whole other can of worms. I've already talked to both of them about it, and they promised to be nice to each other because they don't want to upset me. Because if anyone upsets me.....:ohreally:

:lol:

[bnd94]

We are getting married on top of a mountain so I worry that it will rain and we will have to pick a different date.

[Jenn]

I'm worried that my grandfather will act like a butt because his doesn't like the fact that my FH is Chinese.

[jrbecca]

I worry about a few things, like all brides. Mainly, I'm concerned that prior to us arriving at the reception, someone unhappy with their seating assignment will switch things around more to their liking. I'm also concerned about uninvited guests showing up at the reception. Finally, I'm horribly concerned that no one will think I'm a pretty bride. Is this vain of me?

[*alissa*]

Oh, LOL, I am sure you've all heard my fear before my wedding before!
I was TERRIFIED I would step on the hem of my dress and the whole thing (strapless) would come down! I had many a nightmare where I am standing there with the top of my dress around my waist! (It did NOT happen, and really, I don't think it COULD HAVE) But I was so scared of this, I bought hollywood fashion tape and taped the top of my dress in place!

[Noelle]

I have a VERY sensitive stomach and was afraid I'd be in the bathroom ALL day at our wedding!

[nikkiscott]

I have a few things...

*that I will ruin my dress before during or after the wedding
*the food will suck
*dancing with fh will not be good - I bought a dvd to learn
*my cake - its a little complicated.
*no one showing up

I don't think that I have anything to worry about. These are things that I think might happen to go wrong. The dress and dancing thing are the major things. lol

[MrsAbi]

Our wedding is about an hour and a half aay from where us and most our guests live. So I'm worried that the roads will be really bad and people won't come. Fortunately, winters have been oddly mild the past couple of years. Yay, global warming!

[belle67]

Spilling food on my dress! :lol: I am always messy and nortorious for spilling if I am wearing anothing white. I think I will need a king sized napkin to tuck under my chin. :heee:

[Kathy]

Decided to bump this up, since I'm going through my list of freak outs at the moment!

*I won't fit into my dress.
*There will be a big snow storm and people won't come.
*People won't drink/have fun because it's a cash bar (which was NOT my choice).
*This may sound lame, but I'm worried about going to the bathroom in my big poofy pretty dress.

[Mrs. Bebe]

My biggest fear is actually a pretty realistic one. I'm getting married in February in Alberta, Canada- where -22F (-30C) is a common occurence. I'm scared there will be a blizzard and no one will be able to come! Also, that it will be too cold for pictures. That being said, I guess it's the price you pay for having a winter wonderland wedding :)

[jillian]

I was worried that:
1. A lot of people wouldn't show.
2. No one would dance.
3. The food wouldn't be good.
4. The cake wouldn't be good.
5. People wouldn't have fun.

And
1. Everyone showed. With an exception of one cousin but we had a surprise guest.
2. Dance floor was always filled.
3. I loved the food. From what I saw most people ate all their food.
4. Cake was awesome!
5. People still tell me how much fun they had.

[*Diane*]

I was worried that Jeff's family would ruin the day for everyone but they were on their best behavior. Everyone had a great time.

I also was worried that we would all fall down the steep stairs but :thumbsup: no one fell.

[sarahm08]

I was worried that I wouldn't get the pictures that I wanted because it was raining, but I did so it worked out perfect.

I was surprisingly really calm on our wedding day, I thought I'd be frantic.

[KelciAlexandra]

i feel like im worried about A LOT of things... but theyre mainly things that i cant completely control like...

-getting my period (which happened both of my hs proms and my sr homecoming)

-getting sick or having my nerves MAKE me sick

-my arthritus acting up... even though im only 19 (gonna be 20 in a week :D) i have really bad arthritus in my ankles and i dont want to limp down the aisle

-people showing up who aren't suppose to (or didnt rsvp... like fh's family b/c theyve never done that before... they just show up if they feel like it) and people who rsvp'd and dont show up (and didnt tell me before the wedding)... i mean i AM going to be paying about $35-40 on them for food and gifts... they can at least tell me if theyre gonna be there or not so that i dont waste my money

-people not having fun and socializing or dancing

-people not being able to show up because its half way across the country for my family and a 2 hour drive of fh's family (thats a long ways for THEM)

-fh's family being embarassing... i know i sound really mean about this but they dont dress up for weddings cause they dont think theyre all that important and they dont really respect that if they trash something that someone else has to pay for it... im just scared that theyre all gonna show up in jeans and camoflauge t-shirts and break a lot of things that we have to pay for (this is fh's extended family like aunts, uncles and cousins)

-that there will be family drama (fh's family)... my family handles their drama at home... fh's family would go on jerry springer if they had the chance (no joke)... they have no problem stealing the spotlight or causeing a fight during someone elses special day (well a few select ones wouldnt)... im just really scared that particularly one of 2 of his girl cousins will come in and start swearin and start a fight and make a big scene and embarass us in front of everyone and ruin our day

i know i just wrote a WHOLE lot of things that im worried about but i think thats because me and fh havent been able to communicate directly what we expect at our wedding (no casual clothes and no drama) and that we havent gotten to the part where we are sending out our invitations so we dont know who is planning on showing up and whose not

[~*Kate*~]

I was worried my BM dress for Biz's wedding wouldn't zip. It did, but just barely. :relieved:

[Winter_Bride]

My biggest worry would that there would be drama with my family, his family, some friends, etc.

Thankfully, there was no drama the day-of. There was leading up, but everyone was on their best behaviour on my wedding day. Either that, or I was in such a daze I completely ignored any drama going on :tooth:

[km]

something always goes wrong so I wouldn't worry about it.