roomates complaints!!

[~Tala~]

OMG--I cannot wait until next month! With each passing day, it is becoming more apparent to me--my roomate is a complete jerk, whiner, 2nd grader...you name it. I could handle the sloppiness and laziness...the negativity and complaining. And the immaturity. But what happened last night has crossed the line for me. I was simply communicating to him what our landlord told me regarding our walkthru when we move out...and to make a long story short--I said something I probably shouldn't have (really, it wasn't that bad...but it was said out of complete irritation for the way I was being talked to during the conversation) and he got all pissy and stormed out of the house. Then today he has the odacity to tell my husband (his really good friend) that if I don't apologize to him...he's going to make my life a living hell over the next month. I'm still in shock for 2 reasons:
#1 How could you place a condition on a friendship for such a childish thing?
#2 How can you bring my husband and your good friend into the middle of something that has nothing to do with him?

So, I called him (the roomate) on the phone and basically gave him a backhanded apology. I told him I was only doing it for the sake of making sure everyone in the house could live in a comfortable environment. I also made a couple of other things clear to him. He is a friend of mine also and always will be...but there is only so much a person can take and I just think it's a little too far when you threaten to make a person's life a living hell if they don't apologize to you. Give me a break. How hard is it to move on, be an adult...put our difference aside for the sake of everyone else? Talk about an ego.

Sorry so long--this was a really hard thing for me...and I just can't wait to get the heck out of this place and be in our cute little apartment--just my amazing husband and me!! :heee:

[Poloke]

He's got alot of n*ts telling your hubby that he intends on making your life a living hell for a month if you don't basically kiss his ass. Is he living with you guys right now? If that is the case, he's a bigger ass than originally thought! I'd be marking the days off on the calendar like a kid waiting for christmas. And although its immature, I'd tell him where to stuff his ego after the move is complete!

[kate]

That sucks! We dealt with a similar situation last year with a roommate and it was absolute hell! I feel your pain!

[HisBlue]

I'm sorry this is going on :( I had a roommate who did stuff like that... Unless you are dating or married to them they are impossible to live with (sometimes even then :hehe: ) Mine made me pay the full months rent 2 months in a row and then the month I went to move out demanded I pay my half of the rent... take it out of the 2 months I paid for the full rent because you decided to quit your job! Didn't turn out good that's for sure LOL

Roommates can be such a pain sometimes. I hope you don't have to deal with it for too much longer!

[*alissa*]

Well, at least soon you guys will be on your own, and won't have to deal with a roomie! It is stupid that he acted that way, talk about selfish!

[~Tala~]

Thanks everyone. Yes, he does currently live with us. I've just been talking to him if I need to...but I certainly do not go out of my way. Believe me, I would love to say a lot of things to him, but that would just upset my husband and I need to be the bigger person here. So, that is why I vent to you!

I AM marking off the days on the calendar, lol. And according to today, we have 24 days left!!!! I can't wait!!!

Thanks for the support. :)

[*alissa*]

Feel free to vent! I know I always try to listen.....and offer support. That way...someone listens to me when I vent, he he. Hust hang, hon, less than a month, and u and your hubby will have a place all to yourselves!!!!

[Jaci]

Sometimes it's just nice to be able to get it out and know that people are listening, regardless of the fact that we all are so far apart from each other.

Good luck, I hope things go okay from now on. If not? We are here to listen :)

[Andrea]

anyway you could move out lets say...NOW...man i know how it feels TOTALLY to have friends walk rite over you...like its nothing at all

[Naima]

:bighug: Getting closer to 0 days, doll.

[~Tala~]

Well, my hubby and I had a nice fun vacation away from the roomates this weekend!! We went to Disneyland for our one year anniversary!!!! Now we only have 17 days left. :heee:

[~Tala~]

Ugh...it's almost 3am and one of my roomates (the nice one) just woke us up to have my husband drive with him to pick up our other roomate (not so nice one) because of some drama! OMG--it's 2am...I'm just so frusterated. I know we are all friends and will do anything for each other, but it just isn't the same after how he's treated us. All I can say is that he is lucky everyone still cares about him...regardless of how crappy he treats them. I feel really bad even thinking this, however this is the second bad thing that has happened to him recently and while I would never even wish something bad on my worst enemy--it's karma at work, all coming back to him. This is why you should be nice to people. Okay, enough of my rant. Only 15 more days. I really do hope he's okay, however I am not happy.

[*alissa*]

It's gettin closer! I will be so happy for you when you and your DH have a place of your own!

[~Tala~]

It's gettin closer! I will be so happy for you when you and your DH have a place of your own!

Thank you so much!! We are out and finally have our own place!! We are so happy....it's perfect here. We absolutely love it...and the kitties do as well. :)