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Mel
10-06-2008, 10:46 AM
Yesterday Dustin took me on a birthday outing to Garden of the Gods (www.gardenofgods.com). On our way I took a bunch of pictures of the scenic mountains which flanked our trip and we had a good conversation.
We got over to where the park is and started looking for a place to park so we could work around a bit. Eventually we found a nice little spot and headed in to get a closer view of their majesty. He kept trying to get us closer, and we wound up getting right up to the base of one of my favorite rocks. We laughed and were silly a bit, then while I was sitting down just looking at the rocks, he told me he had something to ask me, and said some nice things - then asked me to marry him! As I'm sure I will never hear the end of, I jokingly said no - and we both laughed and hugged and stuff. Then he asked again, b/c I had said no - and I of course said "yes, of course" and we had a moment at the base of this majestic, gorgeous, almost surreal rock in this quiet garden park.... I don't think I will ever forget that.
While in the moment, my phone rang and it was Noah (one of my best friends) calling to wish me a happy birthday - clearly he knew the right moment to interrupt, though I let it go to voicemail.
Dustin and I decided to keep it to ourselves for awhile, and enjoyed the park some more and then he drove around Colorado Springs - showing me some of his old stomping grounds. We reached the point where we really had to head back up b/c he had some studying to do - or so he said!
When we got home, there was a trail of rose petals leading from the elevator to our door, with two candles outside the door. (though there was also two of our teenager friends looking suspicous trying to get into the building when we arrived)
We were greeted by friends in our kitchen preparing a gourmet meal (since we don't eat at non-kosher restaurants - it was hard to have the romantic dinner he wanted - so our wonderful friends stepped in to provide it!), which was then served to us by some of our favorite teens and pre-teens. After a nice, romantic, candlelit dinner - the friends (and more!) showed up again for an impromptu party which even Dustin was not aware of!
We both had the excitement factor increase as our friends sang Od Y'shama (a traditonal Jewish wedding song) and we realized it was for us!

We are both very excited to take this next step and to begin planning our wedding! We are planning on getting married in our wonderful synagogue here in Denver next summer...

Here is a link to the photos from the day: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2470839&l=1c1d6&id=1910319

http://photos-319.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v356/209/38/1910319/n1910319_45753649_1184.jpg

Mel
10-06-2008, 10:48 AM
oh ya! and i did send a text to those i have phone numbers for last night - but after consulting with jess i realized it somehow didn't make it through!
it had said "the ring has officially moved from the sock drawer to my finger"

Rebecca
10-06-2008, 10:52 AM
How romantic! What great friends to set up the dinner and party for you guys!! Congratulations again!!

Trinia
10-06-2008, 10:53 AM
Congrats!!!

KimC625
10-06-2008, 11:00 AM
:clap: Yay, congrats!! We will have to chat some more. I just got engaged this past Saturday night. How long have you been together?

Becki
10-06-2008, 11:01 AM
:sappy:
So glad the ring is no longer hanging out in the sock drawer, but is now living happily on your finger where it's belonged all along.

Renny
10-06-2008, 11:19 AM
:sappy:
So glad the ring is no longer hanging out in the sock drawer, but is now living happily on your finger where it's belonged all along.


:sappy: :word:

MsJessica07
10-06-2008, 11:25 AM
:bliss: Od yeshama b'harey yehuda oo'vechutzot yerushaliyam...col sasson b'col simcha, col chatan v'COL KALLAH!!!

All singing, all happiness, for every groom and EVERY BRIDE!!

Mel
10-06-2008, 11:32 AM
thanks for all the love ladies! :grouphug:

:clap: Yay, congrats!! We will have to chat some more. I just got engaged this past Saturday night. How long have you been together?

we've only been together for almost a year - but it feels like so much more with all that we have been through! i look forward to hearing about your plans as you slowly pull them together!

:bliss: Od yeshama b'harey yehuda oo'vechutzot yerushaliyam...col sasson b'col simcha, col chatan v'COL KALLAH!!!

All singing, all happiness, for every groom and EVERY BRIDE!!

knowing that song is for me makes me all :sappy: - i love it!
(for those who didn't put it together - that's the song that made us both excited last night)

~LeAna~
10-06-2008, 11:39 AM
Oh congratulations!!

MsJessica07
10-06-2008, 11:49 AM
See what's funny is for you the song is like "oh, it's for me!" but I learned it for our wedding so that's always the first association in my head. :hug:

Mel
10-06-2008, 12:07 PM
i always associate it with other ppl's weddings.... so now that ppl are singing it for us its awesomely special....

i sang it for i think 6 weddings so far..... so i'm excited to have ppl sing it for us!

Kristin
10-06-2008, 12:19 PM
Congrats!! What an exciting way to spend your birthday!!

Angela
10-06-2008, 12:25 PM
Congrats, my love! I'm so excited for you!

And I got the text this morning when I turned my phone on :shuffle:

Becki
10-06-2008, 12:32 PM
Mel, do you have my new # saved?

Cindy
10-06-2008, 01:07 PM
:glomp: I didn't get the text, but I heard about it last night. :woo: And of course, :crybaby: and :sappy:

Deidre98
10-06-2008, 01:42 PM
I didn't get the text either but I don't care!!! Mel, I am so happy for you! Congratulations sweetie! You and Dustin deserve all of the happiness in the world!

Krissy
10-06-2008, 01:45 PM
Yay! Congrats Mel!!!

nikkiscott
10-06-2008, 01:46 PM
Congrats on your engagement. I can't wait to hear about the planning.

~*Kate*~
10-06-2008, 02:00 PM
:excited: Congrats!!!

Mel
10-06-2008, 02:02 PM
Mel, do you have my new # saved?

99% sure... i swear we've corresponded since.... 908 right?

(and since cindy, jess, and d all didn't get it - i blame my phone!)


and thanks everyone!!! :grouphug:

Becki
10-06-2008, 02:07 PM
Yep, 908. I think we have too, but was just making sure :shrug:

johnsdeere
10-06-2008, 02:33 PM
Congrats on your engagement Mel!!! :whoop: What a birthday to remember. :)

*Ashley*
10-06-2008, 02:49 PM
Aww, Mel! I am so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!!

oupiglet
10-06-2008, 05:46 PM
Mazel Tov!!!

jillian
10-06-2008, 08:11 PM
Congrats on your engagement!

angie
10-06-2008, 09:23 PM
:sappy: What a romantic guy you have! The rose petals, the home cooked meal and being proposed to at such an awe-inspiring place. Mazel Tov!!!

*Diane*
10-06-2008, 09:32 PM
MEL!!! :bliss: You deserve such happiness and I am so thankful and happy that you have found the man to complete your happiness. :bighug: :bliss:

Mel
10-06-2008, 10:02 PM
thanks for all the love, ladies :grouphug:
i'm so looking fwd to getting to plan my own wedding at last! and to have your support and insights along the way of course....

Noelle
10-07-2008, 05:43 AM
Congratulations!!!! :jump4joy:

Amanda&Hugo
10-07-2008, 08:52 AM
http://www.mustloveweddings.com/forums/showthread.php?p=767235#post767235

Congrats, a bunch!!! :excited:

hellobethie
10-07-2008, 02:28 PM
Congrats Mel! That's an awesome and memorable event! WTG Dustin!

Christa
10-07-2008, 02:29 PM
Congrats! What a beautiful place and way to get engaged! And your ring is beautiful

Mel
02-11-2009, 08:00 AM
:grouphug:

fwiw - i couldn't imagine planning our wedding without the support and insights from all of you wonderful women (and the men too, of course)

~Arielle~
02-24-2009, 07:02 AM
What a beautiful story!!!!!

Mel
04-27-2009, 09:35 PM
i just wanted to add in, that when we took e-pics we found the rock he proposed at... this picture is in front of it... (since right at the rock was the wrong lighting apparently)

http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v2604/209/38/1910319/n1910319_48527475_2313604.jpg

Becki
04-28-2009, 07:32 AM
:aww: